Our Boys....

As I put the boys to bed tonight, I couldn't help but think how lucky I am. Seeing them sleep, so peaceful....it is so hard to describe the feeling. I love them so much.

Both are growing up so fast, I can't believe it. Kimber was born 3 months early and at that time, we didn't know what we were going to do, what was going to happen to him. Was he going to have long term health problems, was he going to be okay, is he going

to make it through the night???? Well, he has grown up to a wonderful boy! I can't believe that it has been almost 6 years. He is going to be starting kindergarten this fall.

Elias will be 20 months on the 7th. He is doing wonderful. He is starting to talk...train, crash, mom, daddy, truck, shoe. We even got him to say Christine tonight, his cousin. What another little amazing boy.

Elias loves to do whatever his big brother is doing. He wants the same toy that Kimber has. Of course, if he doesn't get it, then he starts crying. Sometimes Kimber will give into him and give whatever it is that he wants to him.

I love our boys so much. They are so amazing and can always put a smile on my face when I really need one. They both love to give hugs and kisses. I don't know wh

at I would do without them.

Kimber and Elias --- Your dad and I love you so much! We are very happy to have you in our lives and part of our family! Keep growing the way you are. You both have such wonderful personalities and so very cute!!!!

Mr. Speedy

Mr. Speedy

August 1996 - March 2 2011

Mr. Speedy,

You have been a wonderful part of our family. I remember the day that you joined our family. You were just a little ball of fur, only a few months old. You would run up and down the hallway of our apartment. That is how you got your name. You would not slow down until you were ready to go to bed. Then you would lay in the small of our backs. You were so small that we would roll over on you and you wouldn't move at all.

We loved the way you would eat fish food, climb up the Christmas trees, and eat cantalope that we had prepared for the iguana.

It has been a wonderful 15 1/2 years! We love you and will miss you forever! Mittens has been waiting for you to be with him again. You and him were best pals.

This was a very sad day! We still miss him and keep looking at his special spots and expect him to be there.

Greg

Where to start....

Greg is currently in the CICU at Ridgeview Medical Center. He was admitted on Monday (June 14, 2010). This has been a very scary situation. So much has happened and fast. We are not exactly sure where it has all started.

Greg had a spinal tap on May 5th. The experience was not good. The results came back with nothing wrong -- no extra fluid on the brain & whatever tests they ran on the fluid came back clean.

About a week later I noticed an open wound on his backside. Concerned about it, went to our family practitioner and he stated that it is a cyst and we set up an appointment with a surgeon to look at it. It was infected so he was prescribed some antibiotics.

Greg was still having migraines. He also just didn't feel good. We thought it was just the infection and the antibiotics.

We went to his neurologist on June 3rd as a follow-up from his spinal tap. Due to Greg missing a number days of work, Greg ask his doctor to give him a "back to work pass". The doctor decided that he should not work for 4 weeks until we can get the migraines under control.

Well that night he ended up with diarrhea. He thought it was something he at. Well it went on for 5 days and he started getting a fever. Finally got him to go to the doctor and got an appointment for Friday, June 11th. They took some samples to run some tests and they said they would have the results back in a few days. Well, Saturday the fever got up to 103.7, he was having more of the hot and cold spells. I decided to take him to the ER, which he really didn't want to go, but new he needed to --- something just wasn't right.

The doctors gave him some fluids, ran tests and came back and said that he has colitis (infection of the intestines). They gave him a dose of antibiotics and some more pain medication, Oxycodone (he was already on Oxycontin - prescribed by his neurologist). The gave him the choice of either going home or stay. Greg decided to go home. He doesn't like staying at hospitals, plus he was feeling better.

Due to he was rehydrate, the diarrhea started back up. Fever came back as well as the hot and cold spells. He wanted to give it more time for the antibiotics to work and didn't want to go back to the hospital. Finally Monday night, things just weren't right. Greg was not waking up very well and not walking on his own. I called the ER to double check on taking him back in, mainly to show Greg that someone else said to go in, he didn't want to believe me. So I took him to the ER again. We got there and Greg could not get out of the car very well. The nurse was really surprised that I got him to the hospital and so was I.

After they examined him they came and told me that he had a narcotic over dose, kidney failure, liver damage, pneumonia, and the intestinal infection. He was very, very, very sick. Greg was going to be admitted into the CICU. Monday night was a rough night.

Tuesday: He was waking up more, but still sleeping a lot. He knew where he was, the month, year, and names. He was repeating things over and was just talking about stuff. Changing what he was talking about in mid sentence. The doctor thought this was due to the infections and withdrawal from Oxycontin. They started him back on the Oxycontin to help him.

Wednesday: Still sleeping a lot. This time he didn't know what date it was (thought it was October 9th), where he was, couldn't name his brother's or his dad's name. He did know who we were when we went to visit him, including his grandma (she just came to town from Utah). Greg wanted to get out of bed and leave the room when Elias started crying. He got very angry when we wouldn't let him get out of bed and didn't understand. The nurses had to distract him and we were able to leave.

Thursday: Up more, still didn't know what date it was, thought it was October 10th. He didn't know where he was - thought he was in a garage working on vehicles and was wondering why there were people in the other garage when he was looking out the room window. They have a nurses aid in with him so he doesn't try to take the IV's out and get out of bed without help. They have been wonderful help.

Greg had an EEG to make sure he wasn't having seizures. That came back stated no seizures. Greg was going to have an MRI and a lumbar puncture, but he worked himself up so much they couldn't do either. They are now scheduled for today (Friday, 6/18/10).

Thursday evening he was doing better with his memory. He had called me to ask to have me bring the boys up to see him, along with a blue Popsicle. :) When we got there, he was sitting up in a chair. He wanted to make sure he was awake when we got there. We talked for a little bit and Kimber was able to give him a hug and kiss.

Kimber was so happy to see his dad, but still very sad that he had all the IV's and that he couldn't come home with us. Kimber had stated on Tuesday that his dad needed flowers to get better. So our neighbor, Tracy, gave us some fake flowers to put in a vase to give to Greg. Greg loved it! Kimber misses his Dad so much.

We are going back up to the hospital today. Hopefully they will have run all the tests they need to today by the time we get up there.

I would like to thank everyone for the calls, the support, and all the prayers. I am trying to keep everyone updated as much as possible.

Brothers --- Kimber & Elias

Kimber & Elias have the greatest time being brothers!!!

Kimber loves to play with Elias. Kimber is learning how to share his toys with his brother. He does make sure the toy does not have sharp edges and isn't to small (or to big). A few weeks ago Kimber & I went to the grocery store. We happened to go pass a section with matchbox cars. Of course Kimber had to have one. While he was looking at them, he picked his out, put it in the cart, went back picked one more out, put it in the cart, and said "that is for Elias". I was so proud of him for thinking of his brother.

Kimber also loves to make Elias laugh. If Greg or I are playing with Elias and making him laugh, Kimber has to jump into the action and start getting Elias to laugh too. Kimber gets the biggest reaction out of Elias. When Kimber gets up to go get a drink of water or to go to the bathroom, Elias will watch him and as soon as Kimber is out of sight, Elias will start crying. Kimber will come back and say that he will be right back. That gets repeated a number of times.

Elias loves playing with Kimber too. Elias wants to play with whatever Kimber has. Elias will get upset if he can't have the same type of toy. He thinks he can have everything too. He still puts everything into his mouth so we have to be careful of what he plays with. Kimber is good to keep the Lego pieces out of the way.

Elias is getting around really well. He does a great job pulling himself with his arms with a little help with his legs. It shouldn't be much longer before he started crawling on "all fours". Because of this Kimber has now started putting up baricades around a section that Elias can't get into. It had started with just a small corner, but now it is almost half of the living room. I am going to try to get it back down to the small corner.

Kimber has been a wonderful big brother. He loves taking care of Elias.

Thank you Kimber!!

You have been a great big brother!

Next Step.....

I can't believe that Elias is now 5 months old. He is growing so much. When we were at his 4 month doctors appointing he now weights in at 18.2 Lbs.

He loves watching Kimber play and is wanting to grab everything he can get his hands on and put it in is mouth.

On the 3rd Elias rolled over onto his stomach for the 1st time. We were all so excited. He had been "practicing" for a few days now. He would get on his side and just end back up on his back. He hasn't figured out how to get back onto his back from his stomach, but that will come soon enough.

Picture of Elias just after he rolled over.

Elias is also starting to eat solid foods. He enjoys getting a hold of the spoon and tries to feed himself. He is not so sure about some of food, but he still tries them all that we feed him. We have figured that he loves to try to eat anything we eat. He really loves bread. He does a really good job at "gumming" it. He also loves to drink out of our glasses. While we are drinking he will try to grab the glass. When we do give him the cup he does a great job holding it and putting it up to his mouth. Now the job of getting all the drink to stay in his mouth. :)

Elias Gunner Newson

Elias Gunner Newson had decided that he wanted his birthday to be October 7, 2009. This is the day before the scheduled c-section.

8 Lbs 12.7 oz
22 inches long/tall
11:30 am

Everyone is doing good. Kimber loves his little brother. He wants to hold him all the time. Kimber has also tried to share his toys with Elias. I don't know how long this will actually last.

We came home on Oct 10th and Elias weighted in at 8 Lbs 3 oz. Then on Oct 19th for his 2 week (12 day) check-up he weighted in at 9 Lbs 8 oz. The doctor was just hoping that he would be back to his birth weight. Well, he was that plus some. :)

Pregnancy Update

We are now a little over 31 weeks. Which we are very happy about since Kimber was born at 26 weeks 6 days. There have been a number of things that I have had to do this pregnancy. First I had to start seeing a High Risk Perinatologist and my regular OB. The perinatologist stated that I need to start having an ultra sound done every 2 weeks to make sure that my cervix didn't start opening up. This started at 20 weeks until 29 weeks. There were parts about this that I didn't care about --- have to drive 45 minutes (in good traffic), pay for parking, and Kimber couldn't come along --- no kids in the ultra sound room. I did like being able to see the growth of the baby, which at 27 weeks the baby measured to be a 29 weeks baby and a little of 3 Lbs, more that what Kimber weighted when he was born.
The perinatologist also suggested for me to start with progesterin shots every week. This is something that has only been around for a few years, but they have had a very high sucess rate. Our insurance company would cover these shots, well at least 80% of the cost. So since this was in our best interest, I started getting the shots. The shots helped to keep my uterus from contracting. I only have a few more shots left. They only give them until 36 weeks. Another plus for these shots --- I don't have to drive anywhere, the nurse comes to our home and gives me the shot here. I have had 2 very nice nurses.
Now that I am 31 weeks I don't have to see the High Risk Perinatologist. On Friday I saw my regular OB and I asked if there were any more tests that I was going to have to do. Well, the answer was Yes. Starting next Friday (Aug 28th) I get to go in every week for an ultra sound to make sure the baby is still moving around, stretching, "breathing" (chest moving like it was breathing), and making sure there is still pleanty of aminotic fluid around the baby. Then after the ultra sound, I have see the doctor. I am just glad that this is at the hospital that my doctor is in, so no more 45+ minute drives--- as long as I don't go into labor before 34 weeks. If I go into labor between now and when I am 34 weeks, and the doctors can't stop the labor, then I will be transferred to Abbott in Minneapolis, the same hospital that Kimber was born at. Now that is a 55 miles drive from our home.
Kimber was with me at this appointment. The doctor asked him where she should put the "doppler" to listen to the baby's heart beat. He pointed right above my belly button. So that is where she started and that happened to be right on the spot. Kimber was so proud of himself!!! Good job Kimber!!!!
We did find out what we are having at the 1st ultra sound with the perinatologist, when both Greg & Kimber went. We are having another boy! Kimber is so excited about this. He was really happy to see the pictures of the baby too. Kimber wouldn't let us have the print out of the ultra sound --- they were his. :) It was really cute!!!
Kimber has so excited about having a little brother. He loves to come up to my belly and give it a kiss, talk to it, and just lay his head on my belly trying to listen/feel the baby. He gets so excited whe he feels it kick. He has asked a number of times if the baby is out yet. Of course we have to tell him no and that it isn't time yet. The baby will come out after his birthday. He doesn't understand this part yet.
We have scheduled our c-section for October 8th. Let's hope that we can make it to that date. So far, so good...... We do have the nursery mostly done, we just need to paint the walls. We do have the crib set up and clothes out. We are basically ready for the baby, but need to get the small diapers, we just don't know what size to get, so we are waiting on that...